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I know can be a big challenge for many of us – no matter our age. ADHD impulsivity and distractibility are the two big players that can really throw us off our game. And based on my own experience and training, I’ve found that they are best managed through smart lifestyle design. So that’s what we’re getting into in today’s blog post.
Understanding ADHD and its Symptoms
This blog post is the fourth I’ve had in a series I’m doing for adults who’ve been newly diagnosed with ADHD and may be feeling lost. We’ve previously talked about executive function, energy management to avoid burnout, and ADHD productivity to counter overwhelming procrastination. We also covered emotional regulation — a huge part of ADHD.
Today, let’s dive into impulsivity and distractibility. These are two symptoms that can really affect how we live our lives. They can keep us in a reactive state, always responding to whatever our environment throws at us, rather than proactively living the life we want.
Impulsivity in ADHD: A Closer Look
Let me break it down for you. Impulsivity in ADHD can manifest in several ways. We might interrupt people mid-conversation, blurt out things we probably shouldn’t, or make impulsive purchases we later regret.
The main reason for this? Our behavioral impulses tend to be faster than our thought processes. When we have a busy brain, it can be tough to take a moment and consider whether we should really say what we’re about to say or buy that thing we know we don’t really need.
Our impulsivity can really impact our relationships, our bank accounts, and just our overall experience of life. It’s something we need to address for our own happiness and well-being, both today and especially for our future selves.
Distractibility in ADHD: A Key Symptom
Now let’s talk about distractibility. This is a cornerstone symptom of ADHD. But here’s the catch – it’s not that we have a deficit of attention at all. I mean, I can pay attention to something that I find fascinating for hours, completely forgetting about everything else. The issue is, our attention spans are often dysregulated. We can’t always control what our brains want to pay attention to.
But how can we manage our impulsivity and distractibility? How can we follow through on the things that we want to do in life, rather than just falling down the rabbit hole?
Managing ADHD Symptoms: A Two-Pronged Approach
When it comes to managing distractibility and impulsivity, I find that tackling it from two angles works best: a global or macro standpoint, and a micro standpoint or point of performance. This way, you’re not always relying on tools to help in the moment when you feel distracted or impulsive, because by that point, your behavior has gone beyond the point of intervention.
By focusing on a more holistic approach, you can not only practice focus when you need to, but you also create habits and systems for avoiding situations that trigger those behaviors.
So, let’s dive into it!
Macro Level: Understanding Our Unique ADHD Experience
At a macro level, it all starts with understanding ourselves as unique individuals. We need to identify what we need to function at our optimal level. For me, it’s getting at least 8 hours of sleep, moving my body every day, getting outside, meditating, and staying hydrated. When I do these things, my ADHD symptoms become much more manageable.
Your formula might be slightly different, but good sleep, physical activity, and daily habits that bring joy are universally beneficial.
Micro Level: Managing Impulsivity and Distractibility
Let’s talk about managing these symptoms on a micro level, at the point of performance. For impulsivity, it helps to identify where we tend to behave most impulsively. What triggers this behavior? Once we know this, we can design our lifestyle to eliminate these triggers.
With distractibility, we need to understand where it shows up for us and what pulls our attention away. Can we alter our environment to reduce these distractions? If it’s an emotion or a thought, can we identify it and address it?
Designing an ADHD-friendly Lifestyle
This process of self-understanding and lifestyle design is key to managing our ADHD symptoms.
For example, I’ve set up my home environment to make impulsive behaviors less likely. No chips in the house for impulsive snacking, but healthy food options in plain sight. My yoga mat is positioned where I can’t ignore it, encouraging regular exercise. Important daily tasks are placed in my line of sight, so I don’t forget them, and I’ve unsubscribed from all shopping related emails that used to land in my inbox.
ADHD Impulsivity and Distractibility Can be Managed
Managing ADHD impulsivity and distractibility can be challenging if we leave it to chance, but if we take the time to understand where it comes up, and design our environment to better support us, then we can control it.
It’s an investment in effort, but trust me, designing a life and environment that supports our well-being can make a world of difference. We’re all unique, and what works for one person might not work for another. So, experiment, try different strategies, and most importantly, be kind to yourself.
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